They’re not fierce wolves; they’re not furry people. What are they? Our pets; our companions; our friends. They are not intrinsically aggressive, but neither do they think the same way as humans. This, says animal behaviorist John Bradshaw, is the key to having a successful dog/owner relationship. Bradshaw’s new book, Dog Sense: How the New Science of Dog Behavior Can Make You a Better Friend to Your Pet, provides useful information for any pet owner who wants get to know his dogs. One area of particular concern that Bradshaw covers is discipline. What does he suggest?What do you do when your dog jumps up on a guest? Some owners are likely to physically discipline the dog, such as with a swat on the nose. But negative attention is still attention. Bradshaw suggests that you ignore your dog. Just look away and fold your arms. Don’t give him what he really wants – attention – unless he’s doing a good behavior. Dogs are incredibly sensitive to body language, and they will get the point. Withdrawing attention is like taking away a kid’s Wii, perhaps more effective though because dogs are easier to train!
Bradshaw says, that, “surprisingly, most dogs, given the choice, will actually prefer human company to other dog company.” They want to be with you and please you. Your withdrawal of attention is far more effective, and humane, than physical reprimands. Likewise, your attention is far more powerful than anything else – yes, even treats and bones. Most, not all, but most, dogs want to make you happy. They will pick up on your cues and follow your lead.
This makes training a dog sound simple and easy – it’s not! It can be very, very challenging. But the point is to remember that physical or verbal reprimands are not particularly effective. What your body says is far more important than what your mouth says.
















